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Repairing Harm: A Better Alternative for Punishment

11/19/2020

Positive reinforcement is one of the most effective behavior modification techniques. It is important to reward the behavior you want to see more often, rather than focusing on negative actions. Examples of free or low-cost rewards that encourage positive behavior include: clapping and cheering, giving a high five, giving a hug, giving a thumbs-up, and offering a special activity. You may also reward positive behaviors by giving a child extra privileges or tangible rewards. Remember to focus on your child’s efforts and improvement, rather than focusing only on perfect results; if you see them try or if they did better than last time, let them know you notice. The more often praise is offered, the more motivated your child will be to repeat the behavior. The connection between the reinforcement and the behavior will make the positive consequence more memorable and effective.

Eight alternatives for punishment:

Take a time-out with your child.
Actively show your child that they are heard.
Ask mundane questions.
Connect with your child.
Provide your child with choices.
Give yourself a time-out before responding.
Teach kids to show – not just say – that they are sorry.
Give your child time along with an expectation.

In the classroom, reward coupons could be a great way to practice positive reinforcement. Students will be able to earn the opportunity to listen to music on their headphones, be the teacher’s helper for the day, draw on the board for 15 minutes, extra recess, etc.

Here are links to additional resources for alternative punishment:
8 Positive Alternatives to Punishment
Using Positive Reinforcement to Improve Behavior

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Social and Emotional Benefits of Art

11/11/2020

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Literature, visual arts, graphic arts, plastic arts, decorative arts, performing arts, music and architecture are all great examples of different types of art. Each mode of expression uses skill or imagination in the creation of aesthetic objects, environments, or experiences that can be shared with others.

We believe children who are exposed to creative and artistic outlets and have the ability to explore and participate with such activities, perform better at reading, writing, and math; develop self-confidence and self-esteem; boost self-reliance; and increase empathy and compassion. Art is believed to help children and young adults build confidence, encourages empathy and acceptance of differences, allows opportunity for free expression, encourages creativity, and builds problem-solving skills.

Art allows children and young adults to explore emotions using different colors; using colors to explore emotions creates the opportunity to discuss and identify feelings and use shades and tones to express the intensity of those feelings.

Just the act of working on crafts allows for the chance of multiple skill development such as -- planning, patience, following directions, fine motor skills, problem-solving, focus, and perseverance.

Art can be used as a tool to help students and adults calm themselves whenever they are stressed; mindful coloring is simple and creates a positive outlet to manage emotions.

Click this link to find some great art activities for Social and Emotional Learning.

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International Stress Awareness Day

11/4/2020

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Everyone experiences stress – stress is a normal part of being a person – but learning healthy ways to cope can help reduce stressful feelings and symptoms.

Healthy Ways to Cope with Stress

Take care of yourself. – eat healthy, exercise on a regular basis, get plenty of sleep, give yourself a break
Talk to others. – share your feelings and challenges with a parent, friend, counselor, doctor,
Take a break. - take a break from social media, take a walk around the block.

Tips for Parents

Just by maintaining the time children wake up and go to bed at regular times may create a sense of stability. Being involved in after-school activities may provide children with stability and extra support.
Listen to your child’s thoughts and feelings and share some of yours; create opportunities for your children to talk and encourage expression, but do not force them.
Watch and listen to your child and be alert for any change in behavior.
Reassure your child about his or her safety, security, and well-being.
Talk to other parents and your child’s teacher about ways to help your child cope with stress.

Tips for Kids and Teens

Talk to and stay connected to others. – parents or other relatives, friends, teachers, coach, family doctor, call a crisis intervention or national hotline
Get active. – go for a walk, play sports, play a musical instrument, join an after-school program, volunteer with a community group of common interest
Take care of yourself. – try to get plenty of sleep, eat healthy, exercise, and keep a routine.
Take breaks.

Tips for School Personnel

Create opportunities for children to talk and try asking them questions.
Watch and listen; be alert for any change in behavior.
Maintain normal routines in the classroom, this will create stability for students experiencing stress.
Take care of yourself. – eat healthy, exercise on a regular basis, get plenty of sleep, give yourself a break

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Repairing Harm: A Better Alternative for Punishment

Social and Emotional Benefits of Art

International Stress Awareness Day

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